Part 1: The Story (15 mins)

I'll share my own journey of confusing sabr with self-destruction.

How I stayed in a marriage for nearly 5 years, crying every night, barely able to care for my kids during the day.

How I thought suffering made me more pious. How I believed going through pain was my ticket to Jannah.

How I tolerated being blamed, yelled at, chased, scared—thinking my sacrifices would be rewarded.

Until the day I saw my eldest son's scared face watching me. And I knew: This cannot be what Allah wants.

How a female scholar in Amman told me: "If you stay, your kids may leave Islam when they're older due to the trauma."

And how another scholar said: "If you go back to him, he's not hurting you. You're hurting yourself."

That's when I realized: Staying was a choice. And a bad one.

I'll share how I left for the sake of Allah, trusting Him completely—even though the uncertainty was terrifying.

And how my kids are NOW thriving, confident, beaming with joy—because I followed the fiqh.

This story will make you feel seen. Not alone. Not judged.

Part 2: The Framework (45 mins)

I'll teach you the Islamic distinction between sabr and self-destruction:

SABR (Patience) Looks Like:

• You have peace even in difficulty
• You're trusting Allah while ALSO protecting yourself
• You can worship with khushu' (presence, not resentment)
• You're setting boundaries with love (not anger)
• You're detached from outcomes but attached to your values
• You accept who people ARE, not who you imagine they'll become

SELF-DESTRUCTION Looks Like:

• You're constantly anxious, walking on eggshells
• You've abandoned your own needs completely
• You can't pray without resentment or anger
• You're silent out of fear, not poise
• You're attached to fixing/changing him
• You've told yourself suffering = piety

Then I'll break down:

✅ The Hadith: "Your own self has a right over you"

✅ The Quranic verse: "Do not throw yourselves into destruction" (2:195)

✅ Your Islamic rights that MUST be fulfilled (husn al-mu'ashara, nafaqa, intimacy)

✅ The consequences of staying in self-destruction mode:

• Isolation & loneliness (you're neuro-biologically wired for connection)
• Physical exhaustion (no emotional energy for your kids)
• Spiritual stagnation (spirituality peaks in CALM, not chaos)

✅ The decision framework: When to stay, when to pause, when to go

✅ How to set boundaries Islamically (with poise, with tawakkul, with dignity)

Part 3: Client Stories (15 mins)

I'll share anonymized transformations:

Client #1: The woman who waited 7 years for a man to love her back, doing everything for him with no commitment, until he discarded her. How she learned that men don't act for women they don't need to earn.

Client #2: The woman who wanted to divorce her husband because he never stood up for her to his family. How she realized he simply didn't have the capacity to stand up to them (not about love). How she set a boundary (meeting in-laws twice a year only) and saved her marriage.

Client #3: My own story of my kids thriving NOW—confident, joyful, excelling—because I chose to leave dysfunction and follow the fiqh.

These stories will give you hope. Transformation IS possible.

Part 4: Q&A (15 mins)

You'll have the chance to ask questions and get personalized guidance.

This is where the masterclass becomes a conversation.

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WHAT YOU'LL WALK AWAY WITH:

✅ Clarity: You'll know whether you're practicing sabr or self-destruction

✅ Permission: The Islamic framework that says "you're ALLOWED to protect yourself"

✅ Hope: Transformation is possible (for you, for your marriage, for your kids)

✅ A Decision: Stay with boundaries, pause to reset, or leave with dignity

✅ Peace: You'll finally understand that protecting yourself honors Allah

BUT HERE'S WHAT THIS MASTERCLASS WON'T DO:

❌ It won't give you a personalized roadmap for YOUR specific situation

❌ It won't help you IMPLEMENT boundaries without guilt

❌ It won't regulate your nervous system so you can hold boundaries with poise

❌ It won't walk you through the entire Heartful Awakening Plant™ methodology (Roots → Flower)

That's what coaching does.

And if you're ready for that level of transformation, I have 9 coaching spots available.

40% off through January 5th.

Code: HEARTFUL40

(I'll share details at the end of the masterclass.)

WHO AM I?

Salaam, I'm Maariya.

I'm a HAPI Coach and 'Alimah with 10+ years of study in Hanafi Fiqh.

I help Muslim women navigate complex relationships—avoidant partners, narcissistic family dynamics, difficult in-laws—through the Heartful Awakening Plant™ methodology.

I teach the art of Heartful Detachment: how to set boundaries without guilt, trust Allah without fear, and protect your peace without losing your poise.

I've been where you are.

I've cried myself to sleep. I've walked on eggshells. I've confused suffering with sabr.

And I've found the way out.

Not just for me. For dozens of women just like you.

Women who:

• Finally set their first boundary without guilt
• Saved their marriages by PAUSING them
• Left abusive situations with dignity and tawakkul
• Reclaimed their femininity, their peace, their joy

This work is life-changing.

Don't just take my word for it. Here's what women have said:

WHAT PAST PARTICIPANTS SAY:

Maryam (after ONE conversation):"So many women need this, may Allah reward you. You're on my mind quite a bit and honestly, I'll never forget our connection and that one day we spent together. I connected with you on a different level, and ya Allah you really helped me alhamdulillah, mashaAllah. Inshallah you're going to be helping a lot more ladies just like me. And may Allah be pleased with you always and reward you."

Zainab (after 4 coaching sessions):"For the first time in my life, I'm beginning to realize that I deserve the same love that I give. You gave me knowledge I didn't even get from my therapist. I'd be thinking in our sessions, 'Omg this has a NAME. I need to write all this stuff down!'"

Noura (after 4 sessions):"I created an alter ego—the woman I'm becoming. And she's everything I've always wanted to be. Confident. Boundaried. At peace."

THIS MASTERCLASS IS COMPLETELY FREE.

No catch. No upsell during the teaching.

Just 90 minutes of pure value, Islamic knowledge, and transformation.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Q: Will this masterclass be recorded?

Yes! If you can't make it live, register anyway and you'll receive the replay within 24 hours.

Q: Is this masterclass only for married women?

No! This is for ANY Muslim woman navigating complex relationships: marriage, family, in-laws, friendships, even past relationships.

Q: What if my husband doesn't want me to attend?

Your own self has a right over you. Islamic knowledge is your right. You don't need permission to learn how to protect yourself Islamically.

Q: Will you tell me to divorce my husband?

No. I teach the Islamic framework for decision-making. Whether you stay, pause, or leave is YOUR decision—but you'll have the clarity to make it with confidence.

Q: I'm scared to set boundaries. Will you teach me how?

Yes. The entire masterclass is about setting boundaries Islamically—with poise, with mercy, with tawakkul.

Q: What if I can't afford coaching after this?

The masterclass is FREE and gives you massive value. Coaching is optional. Come learn, get clarity, and decide what's right for you.

ONE FINAL WORD

You didn't end up here by accident.

Allah brought you here because somewhere deep down, you know:

The way you're living isn't the way you're meant to live.

The exhaustion. The loneliness. The resentment. The chaos.

That's not sabr. That's self-destruction.

And it's time to learn the difference.

Register now. Your future self will thank you.

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